by Laura Jones
Updated on January 3, 2024
Confusing “too” and “to” is very common, but it’s never to too late to learn which is correct. “Too” is an adverb; synonyms include “also”, “as well”, “overly” and “highly”. ‘To’ is a preposition with a variety of meanings and synonyms like “toward”, “till”, and “so that”. If you’re still confused, don’t worry. Even native speakers confuse these two little homophones (to be clear, “two” is also pronounced the same, but not many people confuse it with the other to two words.) So, we’re going to teach you what is the difference between “too” and “to” with examples in context. Let’s take a deeper look!
At least the pronunciation is the same, right? Not so fast. We just said these words are homophones, and that is true up to a point. There is only one way to pronounce the adverb “too”: /tuː/, with a long oo sound. There are several ways to pronounce the preposition “to”: one is /tuː/, with the long oo sound just the same as “too”, but at other times it is pronounced /tə/, which rhymes with “uh”. More on this later.
“Too” has fewer uses than “to”, so we’ll start here. There are two main uses of “too”:
If “too” appears in the middle of a sentence, it should have a comma both before and after it.
We use a comma before “too” when it comes at the end of a sentence if there is an “abrupt change of thought”.
You will also see “too” in many other phrases. One of the most common ones is “you too”, as a response to someone else.
“Have a great night!”
“You too.”
Native speakers use “too” for emphasis in place of “very”, for example, “You are too crazy!” Lastly, you’ll see “too” in the abbreviation TMI, which is short for “too much information”.
There are far too(!) many uses of the preposition “to” for us to mention all of them here, but we’ll cover some of the most common ones.
Now back to pronunciation. “To” is often pronounced /tə/ with the schwa sound in connected speech. We call this the weak form. Instead of pronouncing it with the long vowel (oo), we pronounce it with a short sound (uh) when we are not emphasizing it – this is most of the time.
You’ve seen lots of examples of the differences between “too” and “to”, but how can you apply all of this to your own writing? By making substitutions to check. When you write a sentence, try to replace the word “too” or “to” with the words “very”, “also”, or “overly”. If you can do this, you should write “too”. If you can’t, it’s “to”. Here are a few examples:
It’s too [overly] windy to go for a walk right now. 🗹
That jacket belongs to [very/also] me! 🗵
Ellen’s driving to [very/also] Germany today. 🗵
I’m going to make some extra, so we’ll have dinner for tomorrow too [also]. 🗹
Of course not! Remember that the adverb “too” means more than needed and as well, while the preposition “to” means… well, everything else we said! It can express directions and the limits of ranges, and indicate objects and recipients of an action. Use the replacement technique to check your own writing and to make sure these tricky little homonyms don’t trip you up.